Election Day: A Lesson in Community and Civic Responsibility
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"Somewhere inside of all of us is the power to change the world."
— Roald Dahl
Every year, I take my kids with me to the voting booth, making it a special family tradition where we talk about the importance of using our voices to shape our community. This year is particularly meaningful, as I will have two 18-year-olds voting for the first time. It's a moment of pride to see them engage in this responsibility, carrying forward the lessons we’ve shared over the years. Election Day is not only a time for casting ballots, but also for instilling values like responsibility, respect, and the power of choice in our children. Through mindful activities and thoughtful conversations, we can introduce the values of democracy and civic duty to children of all ages, nurturing the next generation of informed and compassionate citizens.
Preschool
Planting the Seeds of Understanding
At this young age, children may not fully grasp the concept of voting, but they can begin to learn about making choices and participating in group decisions. Explain that Election Day is when grown-ups come together to make important choices for their community, just like when they choose their favorite book or activity.
Activity:
Voting for Favorite Activities—Create a simple “election” at home where children vote for their favorite activity, snack, or book. Provide a small ballot and encourage each child to choose. This activity introduces them to the concept of voting in a fun, age-appropriate way.
Lower Elementary
Exploring the Power of Values
Children at this age are ready to understand that voting is a way to make their voices heard and that every vote matters. Explain that Election Day is when people express what they believe in and choose leaders who reflect those values. This is also an opportunity to explore what values are important to your child, such as kindness, honesty, and fairness.
Activity:
Create “Value Yard Signs”*—Invite children to design their own “political” yard signs, but instead of supporting a candidate, they can choose a value they think is important, like kindness, honesty, or respect. Provide art supplies like markers, paints, and cardboard or paper to make the signs colorful and expressive. Display the signs in your yard or around your home as a reminder that values like these are the foundation of strong communities. This hands-on activity allows children to creatively engage with the idea of voting and values, emphasizing what truly matters in a community.Make it stand out
Upper Elementary
Civic Responsibility and Fairness
Children in this age group are starting to develop a deeper understanding of fairness and justice. Use Election Day as an opportunity to discuss how voting helps ensure that everyone has a say in decisions and that communities work better when all voices are heard.
Activity:
Mock Election—Organize a mock election where children vote on a topic, such as a special family activity for the weekend. Discuss the importance of each vote and how participating shows respect for others. This hands-on approach helps children understand the significance of voting and community involvement.
Middle School
Understanding the History of Voting Rights
Middle schoolers are ready to explore more complex ideas about voting and the history of democracy. Election Day provides an opportunity to discuss how not everyone in the United States was always allowed to vote and how gaining the right to vote was a hard-fought victory for many groups, including women and people of color. Explain that it wasn’t until 1920—just over a century ago—that women finally earned the right to vote with the passing of the 19th Amendment, thanks to the courage and determination of activists who believed in equality.
Activity:
Watch “Iron Jawed Angels”—This mini-series tells the story of the women’s suffrage movement and the brave individuals who fought tirelessly for the right to vote. Watching this with your middle schooler provides an opportunity to reflect on the privileges we have today and the importance of using our voices. After watching, discuss the challenges faced by those who fought for voting rights and why it’s important to honor their legacy by being informed and engaged citizens.
High School
Critical Thinking and Informed Decision-Making
High schoolers are at an age where they can critically engage with the concept of democracy and the importance of informed voting. Discuss how each vote contributes to shaping policies, electing leaders, and building the society they live in. Encourage them to reflect on how they can stay informed and involved, even before they are old enough to vote.
Activity:
Attend a Local Event or Volunteer—Encourage high school students to attend a local town meeting, school board meeting or volunteer at a community organization involved in civic engagement. Discuss how participating in these events helps them understand the workings of their community and prepares them to be active, responsible citizens in the future.Make it stand out
Feel free to explore these activities in a way that suits your family’s rhythm—adapt them, mix them up, or create something entirely new! The beauty lies in making them your own. If you try something different, we’d love to hear your story and share in the journey!
Parent Reflection
Election Day is not just about casting a ballot; it’s about modeling civic responsibility for our children. As parents, we have the opportunity to demonstrate the importance of community involvement and making thoughtful choices that impact others. Whether it’s bringing our children with us to vote or having conversations about fairness and participation, Election Day is a chance to nurture a sense of connection and responsibility in our families. By sharing these moments, we create a legacy of engaged, compassionate citizens who understand the importance of their voice and the power of collective action.
